People hate you when you are having the slightest bit of happiness. I have seen it and experienced it. Once in a while, everyone has his moments of joy, even if your life is too much worked up. I think that one needs his share of happiness. Now a day, you share your joy via social media. Sometimes, you can learn a lot about things from these types of social media posts. If someone is visiting some place and is sharing something online, you come to know of the things. Thus, the knowledge percolates. This is the positive thinking you expect but things go in a different direction. People become unhappy seeing you happy and give back all the nasty treatment you deserve for sharing!!! One of my friends keeps sharing photos, and people are after him for his leisure moments. Actually, people are all overworked. They have long separated ways from happiness. All that is left is responsibilities and unhappiness. My take is that responsibilities are important. Without them, you will have nothing left to do. You will be bored to death. One needs to think this way also. So, one needs to accommodate others also in their lives.
As an employee, I learned it in
the early stages, but once in a while, I make mistakes. Then, I face outrageous
remarks regarding anything with no correlation. Since then, I have stopped
sharing things. Once in a while, I share food photos, which should have unique
criteria to be picked and flowers online, yet there is no respite from the
people because you have itch to share. Well, ignoring is the way out, which can be done on one’s end or you can just stop sharing. Now, if
you are such a person, who does not have a good word for the person, you should
keep quiet. You do not need to crash gate other people’s happiness. My take in
this regard is “Live and let live.” You are no one to judge. If you are unhappy
with your life or other’s happiness, keep it to yourself. Expressing your
thoughts will make you unlikable among spheres. It is a ruthless world. You may
find repercussions in another form for your loose mouth. If you cannot accept others, you will not be also accepted. It is as simple as that.
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