Family support: Overestimate by students

  

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We are attached to our family. It gives us a sense of support at the time of our need. We can fall back to our family in the times of emergency. People understood it clearly during COVID19. However, we should not overestimate it.

During college, family tries to give a comfortable life so that they can continue their studies. To extend that support, family has to work hard. Though it may not be a case for rich people, for people hailing from middle class and poor background, it is a great struggle. During student life, one may not realize it but it is very difficult to earn and make ends meet for these people. Therefore, a student has to understand this. Many a time, students fail to see the plight and family members also do not want to tell their hardships. In such situation, many students have a false notion. They tend to behave like a king for whom the well of wealth will never dry. So, they continue in a relaxed manner. 

Once, the degree is completed, they suddenly witness the dark reality. The money suddenly vanishes because it gets distributed among the other siblings to continue their studies or the money is saved for future retirement. Now, his  reality is to get a job or start something to earn. Then, the uphill task starts. If you are good natured, you will continue to get pocket money and that will be it. Nobody will give you lakhs of money to start a business even your parents. 

Frankly speaking, they do not have faith in you because most of the life you have not sold a single pen and business means selling something to someone for profit. Then, you start preparing for a job and you just repent for the wasted times and lazy approach during your college. You just start studying same things again from the scratch. So, one need to be careful during college and should spend time learning skills and honing skills for future so that the transition becomes smooth. 

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Projecting yourself differently

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During colleges, all the students do same kind of studies, projects and internships. There is rarely anything new. In hundreds of vivas, I have observed that some students are something different even though they did projects or internships in groups. They project themselves differently and way of approaching things seems to be more maturer compared to their mates. This makes them stand out and elevates to different level. In interviews also, you will see that other candidates are also with same degrees and even same experience.You have to stand out among the others. So, you are to project yourself differently.

 

 You can do it every possible way while appearing an interview. While attending a lecture, seminar, workshop or internship, you have to keep your eyes and ears open all the time. One needs to absorb the salient things all the time related to your field of work. Then, only you can shine. Suppose, you have undergone a practical training in a machine shop, you are expected to explain elaborately things you have seen during an interview if you produce a certificate regarding that internship. People ask questions and expects answers because you have done it. If you cannot answer the questions, people perceive you as a casual person. So, one should avoid that impression in all respects. Your preparation regarding each and everything should be up to the mark or you become part of the crowd with no markings.  

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B.Tech Guide Book for students

The B.Tech Guide Book is about engineering students and engineering four-year degrees in a nutshell. As a student and teaching professional, I have gained experiences on both sides of the world. I am sharing the experiences through my blog 'The Review' online. Now, I am clubbing all my best experiences at college, University & professional teaching in a book form. One can draw useful information from the book, and if implemented fully, one can succeed in life.

Read  specimen chapter 1

Chapter 1: B.Tech Life

"B. Tech 1st year is very taxing. We discussed various traps in the first year and how to avoid it with your intelligence and presence of mind. The second, third, and fourth-year are the formative years. During these years, you build your character and personality. Right from the second year, you need to be alert for internships. According to the new rule, you have to do a minimum of four weeks of internships. The internships are hard to get now a day in Assam. A lot of students from various institutes apply for internships. Therefore, it becomes a nasty affair. While applying for internships one should keep multiple options open for him/her not limiting to one since he /she might not get if they are selected on merit basis. It happens mostly to internships where OIL, ONGC, NRL, etc. are involved. Getting into an internship does not mean that somebody will prefer you for a job in that company. It is just training for a few weeks. You learn and make a report. Finally, you submit your report during industrial viva to be held in the 7th semester, which bears some credit. So, you should apply through proper channel to the organization where you have the best chance of calling, or you will miss without attending any internship. By any means, one should do the internships." You can buy the book here in kindle edition.