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When you go to a new place to join a job, it is challenging to adjust for a few days. Many cannot cope with it and leave for good. These people are homesick and cannot be convinced to stay on. Everything is not everyone. Besides, everyone has different hopes and dreams. So, anyone is free to chase their dream. But one has to be clear not to spend too much time chasing only dreams. Beyond dreams, there is real life where you earn and make a living. It does not seem to be glamorous but it is life. It has been always like this.
Being new to a new place, you may feel lonely. Your festivals and holidays will be different. You will sometimes feel alienated from the society. But you have to make a decision regarding one question and that is “Why are you here?”. If you are for making money, then it should solve all your problems. Everyone does not get what they wish to have. They may get it if they want to work tremendously hard. Do we do that? Most of the time, the answer is no. So, we have to be content with what we have on our plate. If you want to change the fate, you are free to change it. But, being sorry for your choices and inability, you become sour and blame others for your misfortunes. That should not happen. If you are having fun and end up in this situation, you should respect that and continue with it to mend the choices in future. There is no end. You can always change and mend your way and have what you want to have. It is just you and only you. One of the greatest philosophers of the 20th century Jean Paul Satre said that our life is like an empty page and whatever we fill this page with it, we become just like this. So, everything is in our hands good or bad.
So, being a new employee, you may feel lonely and overworked and genuinely want to ditch the job, but you continue with it. For every job, there is a steep curve of learning. Once, you are through it you become pretty much comfortable with it. Generally, five years in a particular job makes one perfect in his operations. So, one has to be patient like the saying “Rome was not built in a day.”
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