You become the one whom you hate the most

 

I did not believe this statement previously. When I observed people around me, I came to realization that it is true to some extent in some way. After all, everything is not bound in black and white. There are things which is beyond our expectation.

Well, coming to the point, you will find some unfortunate one who is bearing the ire of the higher authority due to many things; sometimes good or bad. Many times, I feel these things lie in grey areas. Different people, lives are different. In this process of hating, people innately hate and go on hating further to the core. Then, people get together with like-minded people. People have this fantasy of amassing support in their plight. For the fun of things, it is just an accumulation of some self-centred people running after self-interest.  In the process, you tend to find solace in like-minded people. It further aggravates things.

Grouping gives a fall sense of belonging. It might help in some cases such as labour issues. Nowadays, things have changed. The age-old things no longer exist. Generally, one should always be independent rather than pledging allegiance to some specific group. Groups are needed to be exploited for strategic goals. If it serves no purpose, it should be exited without delay. One should not be seen as the staunch supporter of a certain thought or belief system if one tries to survive initially. Later on, you can have your standing when you will have financial independence.