Thursday, November 20, 2025

Lonely at the top

 

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In college, we live together and develop great camaraderie among our friends. For many years, we have liked to do everything in groups. The group seems to be unbreakable and invincible before gusts of time. Yet, time is ever powerful; it either takes away the things or withers them away. Like everything else, the group would fall apart by the end of college. Everyone will figure something out in the end. Then, they will take different paths.

It is the truth. It happens at the end of each course or degree. Frankly speaking, there is a very low probability of meeting again. Sometimes, life will steer you towards the same path, but you will lose your warmth because many years have passed. Things have changed, and so you have changed too, because priorities have changed.    

Everyone has to take a lonely path. Your path is your path because your dream is not their dream. In the journey of a career, you should not long for companionship. It is you alone. You have to keep doing it till you arrive wherever you want to arrive. In this journey, you will come across people, engage with them, and stay with them for the time it is meant for. Then, you keep moving. When you reach the top, you will feel lonelier because others will be left behind. You will be accountable and responsible for your decisions. People’s lives will depend on your judgment and decisions. In those times, you will have to make a decision, and those decisions will be your decisions because no one is capable enough to take those decisions. You may feel lonely, but one has to sacrifice something to get something because “That’s just the way it is.”

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