People may not like you all the time

  

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In my life, I have come to feel that people may not like you all the time even your closer ones. Many a time, a small talk is enough to spill the beans. Somebody may be jealous in everything or anything about you. Liking is always driven by interests, expectation and emotion and sometimes all together. But, as an individual it is not easy to satisfy everyone’s demand. We are humans and so we have limitation. One should not keep unrealistic expectation from anybody because he or she is an individual with their own view and perception regarding the things and the way the things to be done. In Buddhism, it is said that expectation is the root cause of all miseries. So, having an expectation from someone will be a fruitless affair. Even if you are having good intentions, people generally do not conform as per your expectation. People listen and ignore it. That is OK. One needs to respect it and move on. One has to continue like it. Nobody is indebted to you to bow before you.

Now, how will one spot that somebody is having an ill intention? Well, there are many signs which I have observed in people such as the tone & approach will change once you are not in good books. There will be frequent curt marks to vent out their irritation. Many body language experts say that left human eye always gives away someone’s irritation during a conversation. These are some signs to look out for.  If we know something like that is brewing in a conversation, we do not need to be rude and look for a gradual withdrawal. There is a saying “time heals everything”. Once you enter into to conflict, there is no turning back, and it brings a lot of unwanted stress. It becomes very difficult to get back to talking terms in future because days do not go as always. You may need them in future.  

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IQ is everything

 

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In last 14 years of service in educational sector, I have noticed that it all boils down to IQ level of a student. Monetary power can get one student to a best private institute but it does not mean that the best facilities can uplift him or her over those years. It is my observation that one succeeds accordingly as per the IQ level. It is the responsibility of the individual to keep working on IQ level. After some time, you will be considered smart amongst others. Every one of us has a particular domain in our educational field. We need to be at least above average to be able to garner some respect from the fellow folks. If we cannot do so, what is the point of being a human? Apart from our domain, we need to keep ourselves abreast with the things happening around us for situational awareness because these things are going to impact us sooner or later in our life. Many people do not feel like to know the general knowledge things but it does help you a lot in many situations. It helps you to start a conversation and you will be considered someone who has knowledge. Nobody likes to talk to a dumb person. He will be always laughed at even if he may have millions of dollar in his bank account. It is important to know that everybody wants some respect at some point of life.  

Coming to students, one has to keep on working on IQ level. How will you know that you are lacking in it? If you are not able to take part in a discussion that really impacts you and your future then you definitely need to work on it. If you are unable to crack any competitive environment then also you have to do some soul searching.  

By learning if you keep tabs on trends, you will not end up being a fool. Now let us analyze the present situation of AI & self driving cars which are coming in a big way to our lives. The world is moving towards adopting these technologies so it will definitely impact us in future. Companies will need less people because AI and automated software will surely eat away a lot of the jobs which human used to do. So, we have to reorient our education to fit ourselves in the future. Sooner or later self driving cars will take driving jobs and people who are skilled in driving have to look in different directions because they will work 24 hours at a less pay which will not be sustainable to humans. Similarly, government policies also do affect us. Suppose, you are having a good industrial policy for your country, you will have a better future. Similarly, in every respect, you can expand your knowledge.

Now question is "how can we increase our IQ level?" Learn about the things impacting you and try to think critically about those issues. Gradually, you will develop knowledge. One should keep in mind that it is gradual process and let it develop that away otherwise you will get bored. Soak philosophies, ideas and arguments in bits and pieces, you will be a wise person.

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Practicing gratefulness

                                            

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In my life, I have come across some people who complain each and everything on daily basis. Some people use complaining as tactic to divert attention like the topper always keeps on telling how he or she is under prepared for the test. But, many people are actually become hopeless in present condition and keeps on complaining. Such people often go negative and slowly other people also start keeping distance for his or her negative views. It has been a problem for many people. They become so hopeless that they stop trying.  Most of the time, they blame others for their misfortune or go astray. It is not true. Others are not at all worried about you and your welfare and let alone plotting invisible conspiracies.

In order to come out from such situation, one has to practice gratefulness. In Christianity, before having a meal, one prays and thanks god for the food on the plate. This is one form of practicing gratefulness. In most of the religions, the great teachings are ingrained to minds of devotees as a ritual so that it becomes a normal day to day practice. Now, we can adopt anything which is the best for us from anywhere. Practicing gratefulness is such a novel practice which can be included in our day to day life for peace of mind. Every day, one can definitely find at least five reasons to be grateful such as

1.       I am grateful for my good health
2. I am grateful that I woke up early in the morning and did my morning exercise.
3. I am grateful that I have a phenomenal day.
4. I am grateful that I have good company in my life.
5. I am grateful that I am limited my spending as per budget for today.

 Similarly, you can find numerous such reasons. Personally, I have a feeling that it keeps you grounded and appreciate life in a better manner. You feel that you are mentally and physically able and there is always a tomorrow to lead a good life.  It helps release a lot pressure from your head. If you are in despair, one needs to count on the blessings bestowed by the almighty and keep on going. So, one need not be very harsh to himself or herself. Life is all about moving on. 

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