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In offices, people do not like to be advised. This is what I have understood so far. If you are working with people and trying to suggest something regarding their things, people may become irritated with you. I have seen someone who always has a word of advice for everyone in every matter. People just started getting repelled by his behaviour. We all have a god complex more or less. When somebody advises us it just hurts our complex.
On the other hand, this is our god complex which keeps us itching to advise somebody. To advise somebody, are we capable? Even if it is in the interest of the person, only, a few can think beyond and take it positively. For that, one has to have good emotional intelligence and a broad mind.
Generally, if people need advice, they will come seeking and get it from a worthy one anyway. Unless you are a professional consultant, you should not keep throwing yourself. Thirsty will come to the well. If somebody thinks that you are somebody who can help with the knowledge, they will seek your advice. Till then, you need to listen only. Most of the time, people need listeners only. They already have made up their mind while sharing with you. Anyway, people need validation of their decisions most of the time. They will continue in their queer way. It is the most common pattern. Many a time, you will find people who will entangle you in their petty affairs. You will give session after session to such a person. Eventually, they will waste a lot of your precious time. One should not be stuck up in such traps. If someone is intelligent, he or she will pick up immediately and work on it.
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