You become the one whom you hate the most

 

I did not believe this statement previously. When I observed people around me, I came to realization that it is true to some extent in some way. After all, everything is not bound in black and white. There are things which is beyond our expectation.

Well, coming to the point, you will find some unfortunate one who is bearing the ire of the higher authority due to many things; sometimes good or bad. Many times, I feel these things lie in grey areas. Different people, lives are different. In this process of hating, people innately hate and go on hating further to the core. Then, people get together with like-minded people. People have this fantasy of amassing support in their plight. For the fun of things, it is just an accumulation of some self-centred people running after self-interest.  In the process, you tend to find solace in like-minded people. It further aggravates things.

Grouping gives a fall sense of belonging. It might help in some cases such as labour issues. Nowadays, things have changed. The age-old things no longer exist. Generally, one should always be independent rather than pledging allegiance to some specific group. Groups are needed to be exploited for strategic goals. If it serves no purpose, it should be exited without delay. One should not be seen as the staunch supporter of a certain thought or belief system if one tries to survive initially. Later on, you can have your standing when you will have financial independence.

Lonely at the top

 

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In college, we live together and develop great camaraderie among our friends. For many years, we have liked to do everything in groups. The group seems to be unbreakable and invincible before gusts of time. Yet, time is ever powerful; it either takes away the things or withers them away. Like everything else, the group would fall apart by the end of college. Everyone will figure something out in the end. Then, they will take different paths.

It is the truth. It happens at the end of each course or degree. Frankly speaking, there is a very low probability of meeting again. Sometimes, life will steer you towards the same path, but you will lose your warmth because many years have passed. Things have changed, and so you have changed too, because priorities have changed.    

Everyone has to take a lonely path. Your path is your path because your dream is not their dream. In the journey of a career, you should not long for companionship. It is you alone. You have to keep doing it till you arrive wherever you want to arrive. In this journey, you will come across people, engage with them, and stay with them for the time it is meant for. Then, you keep moving. When you reach the top, you will feel lonelier because others will be left behind. You will be accountable and responsible for your decisions. People’s lives will depend on your judgment and decisions. In those times, you will have to make a decision, and those decisions will be your decisions because no one is capable enough to take those decisions. You may feel lonely, but one has to sacrifice something to get something because “That’s just the way it is.”

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How do you want be remembered?

   

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When a singer died in my state in India, people went mad. They are in a state of denial for many days after losing their heart throb. Yet if someone dies, he goes for good. They never come back. Well, I was astonished to see how a man stalled the state for one long month away from all discussions but only his death mystery. People from all walks of life came together to pay homage to his last rites, which he deserved.

To deserve something, you have to earn something. Many singers have come and gone, yet nobody has felt as strongly about them. His demise felt as if someone from our own family had been lost forever.   This is the feeling throughout the state.

There are many lessons to learn from instance. We come to this world with nothing and go to another dimension with nothing. Throughout the journey n this world, we have to earn something to be remembered. Many are able to do it on a grand scale. Mostly, we are remembered for our good deeds. The works and behaviours that impacted others' lives. Such people are remembered for generations.

Sometimes, we become selfish and think that nobody is going to remember us anyway after we die. Yet people do remember if you do good works. It cannot be large-scale, yet it could be something doable on your part. This is how the world gets better. Otherwise, it is filled with selfish people.

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Kingship sees no kinship!!!

  

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Should you believe a person in a position of power? The answer will be hard to digest but it is a big “no”. Even if we start from the same starting line, someone will reach zenith and others will be just mere watchers from the ground. This is the hard truth of life. But, in due course of time, we change a lot ; those who reach the zenith and those who are still in the ground.

But, we tend to think that they are the same as they used to be. In real sense, they are not. Time is very powerful. It changes everyone. The ideology and thinking process change and it is hard to digest. We keep them in our mind as they used to be. It is just nostalgia and figment of imagination of romanticism of our past. We like things to be as they use to be even if we change a lot.   

Once e someone reaches position of power, he has some obligations and has to abide by them. For him, you are just another useful hand which can be used and reused. Kings sees everyone as tools to achieve his targets. Even,   a kin is not spared in this strive. Does it make you feel bad? Yes, it is bad, but you have to swallow it. It is hard reality. People in position of power will just service their well being. If your interests align with him, you will be in his good books or you will just push to the corner. In this world, everyone thinks about their self preservation. So, expecting something is just a futile exercise.   

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