Saturday, June 21, 2025

Team work and its illusion (Job series):23

 


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After many years of service, I have done many assignments in groups. As an experienced person, my assessment is that teamwork is just an illusion. Most of the work is done by a few members and the rest of the members just piggy ride on them. It is what I saw in my case but it may vary according to culture to culture and country to country.

Well, many people in the team think that they would equally contribute but practically it does not happen. As the deadline approaches, someone in the team whoever is more responsible chickens out and does the job and the rest just enjoy the fruit.

Over time, the member who contributes more becomes a grumpy man as he takes most of the responsibility. It fills his mind with all kinds of negativity towards the team. Well, this is the truth. If you are a contributing member, you need not worry much because someone always keeps track of everything. People can lobby and get things by sweet talks but they cannot bring competitiveness & efficiency to the table. It is acquired by hard work and rigorous grinding. Sooner or later, people have to pick you up because they have no option but to select the competent one. People who talk much are for show but for practical things, you get the people who are expert. In my service life, I have experienced it. Even the ones from whom you do not expect anything will field you because of your completeness. It seems odd but everyone wants things well managed below them. So, whenever, you find yourself in such a situation of working alone, you think that you are working for yourself and nothing else. It is the truth.

 
If you like the post you can read or gift the author's books “B.Tech Guide Book" , "Campus Placement Guidebook" and "PhD guidebook"available worldwide in Amazon in Kindle format. These book will help you strategize your life. You will find many important things which are not discussed anywhere. Click in the link below.

 

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1. Family support: Overestimate by students 

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2. Knowledge trumps

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4. People may not like you all the time

(https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2024/05/people-may-not-like-you-all-time.html)

5. Retirement Extended

 (https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2024/05/retirement-extended.html) 

6. Financial stress

 (https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2024/05/financial-stress.html)

7. No one is thinking about you

 (https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2024/05/no-one-is-thinking-about-you.html)

8.  Expectation & over expectation

 (https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2024/06/expectation-over-expectation.html)

9. Two people, two lessons regarding interviews 

 (https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2024/06/two-people-two-lessons-regarding.html)

11. Strategy to Write a Paper during PhD:10 

(https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2024/07/strategy-to-write-paper-during-phd.html)

12. Collaboration during PhD to Write a Research Paper:11

(https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2024/07/collaboration-during-phd-to-write.html)

13. Anger Management 

(https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2024/07/anger-management.html)

14. Value addition 

(https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2024/08/value-addition.html)

15. Accept your reality (https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2024/08/accept-your-relaity.html) 

16. A few observations regarding AI

(https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2024/08/a-few-observations-regarding-ai.html) 

17. Mindset oreientation regarding educational loan

( https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2024/08/mindset-orientation-regarding.html)

18. Mad Race to Go Abroad 

(https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2024/12/mad-race-to-go-abroad_21.html) 

19. Staring in a new place

(https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2025/01/job-series01.html)  

20. Habit of advising

(https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2025/01/habit-of-advising-job-series02.html#google_vignette) 

21. People hate you

(https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2025/01/people-hate-you-job-series03.html)  
 22.   Striking a conversation

(https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2025/01/striking-conversationjob-series04.html)

23.Be a sweetie

 (https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2025/01/be-sweetie.html) 

24.For a few dollars more !!!!

(https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2025/01/for-few-dollars-more-job-series07.html) 

25. Too much anger so much stress

(https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2025/01/too-much-anger-so-much-stress-job.html) 

26.  With great power comes great responsibility

(https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2025/01/with-great-power-comes-great.html) 

27. Performance Based World

(https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2025/02/performance-based-world-job-series10.html) 

28. Loose Mouth, Lose Job 

(https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2025/02/loose-mouth-lose-job-job-series11.html)

29. Trust- Mistrust

(https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2025/02/trust-mistrust-job-series12.html) 

30.Frenemy

(https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2025/02/frenemy-job-series13.html) 

31. Invest in yourself 

(https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2025/03/invest-in-yourself-job-series14.html)

32. Sitting Ducks

( https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2025/03/sitting-ducks-job-series15.html)

 33. Resilience

(https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2025/03/resilience.html) 

34. Navigating the Journey of Professional Growth: The Importance of Humility and Caution

(https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2025/04/navigating-journey-of-professional.html)

35.Trial by Fire

(https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2025/04/trial-by-fire-job-series17.html) 

36.Lifestyle 

(https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2025/04/lifestyle-job-series18.html)

37. Superman syndrome

(https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2025/06/superman-syndrome-job-series19.html)  

38. Fresh on the Job, Eyes on the Raise: The Ambition of a New Hire

(https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2025/06/fresh-on-job-eyes-on-raise-ambition-of.html) 

39. Validation

(https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2025/06/validation-job-series21.html) 

40. When the power wanes!!!

(https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2025/06/when-power-wanes-job-series-22.html) 

 


Wednesday, June 18, 2025

When the power wanes!!! (Job Series) : 22

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When you hold a post, you are given some responsibility by the organization and by default, you command some power however it may be small. For most people who do not have a fulfilling life, their job and their positions are their identity.  As time progresses, you move up and your position solidifies. You command greater power and so you make a lot of impact in others’ lives through your decisions. People look up to you for your grace as well as mercy when they are wrong.

Power is like opium. It takes time to get off. Many people get addicted to it and start thinking of themselves as the god. History is filled with such instances. During those days, people tended to behave in a way that was not normal to society. Slowly, people get away from the righteous path of truth.

Sooner or later, power always wanes by various means.  It is not permanent. Sometimes, you get old or sometimes you are just replaced by someone more efficient than you. It is a part of life. We are all replaceable. Humans are nothing. People around you will support you as long as they can benefit from it. Once, they feel that they cannot do so they will throw it like a disposable glass. Most of the time, people are not ready to accept reality, they feel uncomfortable getting back to normalcy. It is what it is. Then, people are surprised to see the very people who sang praises till yesterday will turn against you once you hang up your boots. Humans are selfish beings but the irony is that you are to live amongst them knowing the irony. That is the biggest irony.   

If you like the post you can read or gift the author's books “B.Tech Guide Book" , "Campus Placement Guidebook" and "PhD guidebook"available worldwide in Amazon in Kindle format. These book will help you strategize your life. You will find many important things which are not discussed anywhere. Click in the link below.

 

 B.Tech Guidebook (Click)

 Campus Placement Guidebook (Click)

PhD Guidebook (Click)

Our posts

1. Family support: Overestimate by students 

(https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2024/04/family-support-overestimate-by-students.html)

2. Knowledge trumps

 (https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2024/04/knowledge-trumps.html)

4. People may not like you all the time

(https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2024/05/people-may-not-like-you-all-time.html)

5. Retirement Extended

 (https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2024/05/retirement-extended.html) 

6. Financial stress

 (https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2024/05/financial-stress.html)

7. No one is thinking about you

 (https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2024/05/no-one-is-thinking-about-you.html)

8.  Expectation & over expectation

 (https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2024/06/expectation-over-expectation.html)

9. Two people, two lessons regarding interviews 

 (https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2024/06/two-people-two-lessons-regarding.html)

11. Strategy to Write a Paper during PhD:10 

(https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2024/07/strategy-to-write-paper-during-phd.html)

12. Collaboration during PhD to Write a Research Paper:11

(https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2024/07/collaboration-during-phd-to-write.html)

13. Anger Management 

(https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2024/07/anger-management.html)

14. Value addition 

(https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2024/08/value-addition.html)

15. Accept your reality (https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2024/08/accept-your-relaity.html) 

16. A few observations regarding AI

(https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2024/08/a-few-observations-regarding-ai.html) 

17. Mindset oreientation regarding educational loan

( https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2024/08/mindset-orientation-regarding.html)

18. Mad Race to Go Abroad 

(https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2024/12/mad-race-to-go-abroad_21.html) 

19. Staring in a new place

(https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2025/01/job-series01.html)  

20. Habit of advising

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21. People hate you

(https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2025/01/people-hate-you-job-series03.html)  
 22.   Striking a conversation

(https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2025/01/striking-conversationjob-series04.html)

23.Be a sweetie

 (https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2025/01/be-sweetie.html) 

24.For a few dollars more !!!!

(https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2025/01/for-few-dollars-more-job-series07.html) 

25. Too much anger so much stress

(https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2025/01/too-much-anger-so-much-stress-job.html) 

26.  With great power comes great responsibility

(https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2025/01/with-great-power-comes-great.html) 

27. Performance Based World

(https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2025/02/performance-based-world-job-series10.html) 

28. Loose Mouth, Lose Job 

(https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2025/02/loose-mouth-lose-job-job-series11.html)

29. Trust- Mistrust

(https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2025/02/trust-mistrust-job-series12.html) 

30.Frenemy

(https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2025/02/frenemy-job-series13.html) 

31. Invest in yourself 

(https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2025/03/invest-in-yourself-job-series14.html)

32. Sitting Ducks

( https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2025/03/sitting-ducks-job-series15.html)

 33. Resilience

(https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2025/03/resilience.html) 

34. Navigating the Journey of Professional Growth: The Importance of Humility and Caution

(https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2025/04/navigating-journey-of-professional.html)

35.Trial by Fire

(https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2025/04/trial-by-fire-job-series17.html) 

36.Lifestyle 

(https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2025/04/lifestyle-job-series18.html)

37. Superman syndrome

(https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2025/06/superman-syndrome-job-series19.html)  

38. Fresh on the Job, Eyes on the Raise: The Ambition of a New Hire

(https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2025/06/fresh-on-job-eyes-on-raise-ambition-of.html) 

39. Validation

(https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2025/06/validation-job-series21.html) 

 

 

Saturday, June 14, 2025

Validation (Job Series):21

 

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Humans long for validation. Many express it openly and many do not like to show. Deep inside, everyone has this need. So, when you appreciate people, people get happy. In day-to-day life, we all forget to do that but it works wonders. It motivates people to contribute more.

As a new employee or senior employee, you can use this approach but it should be in a subtle way. It should not look like flattering. Some people do it excessively and becomes very redundant. Rather, it becomes repulsive. People tend to shy away from such people.  

Well to appreciate someone, one needs to have a big heart. In this era of over-competitiveness, people stay away from doing so because it allows others to spotlight.  Overcoming this pettiness is the biggest obstacle. Once you start doing so you break the boundary and promote healthy competition. With this new-found trait, you will feel comfortable to mingle with people. Good things will come in different ways. 

Therefore, if someone has done something remarkable, you need to be the first one to acknowledge that. People have done great things collaborating with people. Isolation does not always yield productivity.

If you like the post you can read or gift the author's books “B.Tech Guide Book" , "Campus Placement Guidebook" and "PhD guidebook"available worldwide in Amazon in Kindle format. These book will help you strategize your life. You will find many important things which are not discussed anywhere. Click in the link below.

 

 B.Tech Guidebook (Click)

 Campus Placement Guidebook (Click)

PhD Guidebook (Click)

Our posts

1. Family support: Overestimate by students 

(https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2024/04/family-support-overestimate-by-students.html)

2. Knowledge trumps

 (https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2024/04/knowledge-trumps.html)

4. People may not like you all the time

(https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2024/05/people-may-not-like-you-all-time.html)

5. Retirement Extended

 (https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2024/05/retirement-extended.html) 

6. Financial stress

 (https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2024/05/financial-stress.html)

7. No one is thinking about you

 (https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2024/05/no-one-is-thinking-about-you.html)

8.  Expectation & over expectation

 (https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2024/06/expectation-over-expectation.html)

9. Two people, two lessons regarding interviews 

 (https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2024/06/two-people-two-lessons-regarding.html)

11. Strategy to Write a Paper during PhD:10 

(https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2024/07/strategy-to-write-paper-during-phd.html)

12. Collaboration during PhD to Write a Research Paper:11

(https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2024/07/collaboration-during-phd-to-write.html)

13. Anger Management 

(https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2024/07/anger-management.html)

14. Value addition 

(https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2024/08/value-addition.html)

15. Accept your reality (https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2024/08/accept-your-relaity.html) 

16. A few observations regarding AI

(https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2024/08/a-few-observations-regarding-ai.html) 

17. Mindset oreientation regarding educational loan

( https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2024/08/mindset-orientation-regarding.html)

18. Mad Race to Go Abroad 

(https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2024/12/mad-race-to-go-abroad_21.html) 

19. Staring in a new place

(https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2025/01/job-series01.html)  

20. Habit of advising

(https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2025/01/habit-of-advising-job-series02.html#google_vignette) 

21. People hate you

(https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2025/01/people-hate-you-job-series03.html)  
 22.   Striking a conversation

(https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2025/01/striking-conversationjob-series04.html)

23.Be a sweetie

 (https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2025/01/be-sweetie.html) 

24.For a few dollars more !!!!

(https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2025/01/for-few-dollars-more-job-series07.html) 

25. Too much anger so much stress

(https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2025/01/too-much-anger-so-much-stress-job.html) 

26.  With great power comes great responsibility

(https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2025/01/with-great-power-comes-great.html) 

27. Performance Based World

(https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2025/02/performance-based-world-job-series10.html) 

28. Loose Mouth, Lose Job 

(https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2025/02/loose-mouth-lose-job-job-series11.html)

29. Trust- Mistrust

(https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2025/02/trust-mistrust-job-series12.html) 

30.Frenemy

(https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2025/02/frenemy-job-series13.html) 

31. Invest in yourself 

(https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2025/03/invest-in-yourself-job-series14.html)

32. Sitting Ducks

( https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2025/03/sitting-ducks-job-series15.html)

 33. Resilience

(https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2025/03/resilience.html) 

34. Navigating the Journey of Professional Growth: The Importance of Humility and Caution

(https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2025/04/navigating-journey-of-professional.html)

35.Trial by Fire

(https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2025/04/trial-by-fire-job-series17.html) 

36.Lifestyle 

(https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2025/04/lifestyle-job-series18.html)

37. Superman syndrome

(https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2025/06/superman-syndrome-job-series19.html)  

38. Fresh on the Job, Eyes on the Raise: The Ambition of a New Hire

(https://authenticmedia2020.blogspot.com/2025/06/fresh-on-job-eyes-on-raise-ambition-of.html) 

 

 

 

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